Last night I was happily sleeping in my mosquito netted bed when my host brother knocked on the door. He told me that there was a phone call for me from one of the participants who has been sick. So I got up, put on my glasses and went to answer the phone. She was sick and wanted to go to the hospital and wanted me to accompany her. I told her I would meet her there.
Yesterday evening it was raining, and when it rains here no one goes outside. Even the taxistas. So, I waited on the corner for a taxi to pass...and finally one did and he took me to the hospital. When I arrived at the hospital the security guard did not want to let me in. I explained to him that I had a friend in there and she needed my help because she didn`t speak good spanish. That was kind of a lie, she speaks fine spanish, but I knew she didn`t want to be alone so I lied. And it didn`t work. He refused to let me in and said that she would be out in a minute...which was really about an hour.
During my time waiting outside the hospital I watched the other people who were there. It was a really interesting mix. A group of three people arrived, one very pregnant woman, a man I assume is her husband, and an older woman who was either a sister or someone`s mom. The pregnant woman entered the hospital, and her husband whispered something in her ear and she went on alone. The husband and the other woman explained to me that no one can accompany those that go in. We kept peeking in when the door would open to see if we could see anyone. I saw that there was a puddle of water on the floor and pointed it out to them, and the woman told me that must mean that her water broke. The husband was quiet but you could tell he was excited. The other woman was talking to me about her day and how she had been feeling sick or whatever it was, and then the man, kind of out of the blue said,
trece de julio, or July 13. It was more to himself than to anyone, a little reminder that that date would be the birthday of his child.
The next group of people that arrived was a mother, her young daughter, and her husband. The mom and daughter went in, and the husband stayed outside. (When I say outside I don`t mean in the waiting room, I mean outside the hospital.) Soon the woman came out alone, she looked panicked and told her husband that the doctors had scolded her for not bringing the girl in sooner and that they were going to operate on her. She instructed him to stay put and wait for them to come out. The husband began to talk to me and the soon to be father, telling us that they had taken his daughter to a doctor but they said everything was alright. He then told us that they had decided to come to the hospital hours earlier, but had to walk in the rain, then take a bike, and then get on a truck to arrive. Then the mom came out once more, and was giving information to the intake nurse, the nurse asked for the birthdate of the girl. The mom came over to the dad and said, if she turned ten in June, what year was she born?
So all in all it was an interesting night. Eventually my student appeared and she was doing much better. I took her home and then I went home and collapsed in my bed, thinking about birthdays.